Eric Johnson from the Kinsey Institute developed an infidelity metrics. The chill control model of sexual response. To explain human sexual behaviors. It uses the analogy of a gas pedal with breaks to describe the dual forces of excitation. Being easily attracted to another person and innovation. Fighting the sexual attraction. In order to find out how these 2 forces a balanced.
Jensen designed to survey with questions, such as 'If somebody you find sexually attractive accidentally brushes against you, are you immediately aroused? Jensen elicits whether and how effectively our brakes work by asking 'If others can hear you having sex, do you quickly lose your desire? or 'Do you lose your desire if you feel coerced into having sex?' This is where up bringing and convection come into play. According to Johnson around 40 percent of people are easily aroused: their engines are revved. Which doesn't necessarily mean they are unfaithful because only about half of these 'racers' have trouble applying the brakes. You could call them two-timing cheats or say that they live a different value system. Systems such as polyamory ie sexual non-monogamy.
Twenty percent I are racers who are good at braking. They are faithful but feel the urge to go astray. The solution serial monogamy promising underlying love again and agian.
I never loved another person the way I loved myself.
Mae West
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